Truth: I have been a critical, negative person, without even realizing it. The first time I was made aware of my critical spirit, came from my husband! It hurt when he told me, “You’re becoming just like your…..”. I Ouch! knew that I didn’t want to grow old and be a bitter critical woman. I began to work on this aspect of my personality, and it took some painful self-reflection and intentional change.
I have improved over the years, ever since he made that comment. However, the “goggles” that I had been looking through for most of my adult life were negative ones. Challenges in life were always addressed with, “Why me?” “Why did this have to happen to me at this time?” I allowed circumstances to control me, rather than me responding with, “How can I grow through this?” I also allowed how others felt about me to rob me of my joy. How sad to realize that I was characterized this way.
I’ve had a few people speaking into my life lately, challenging me to improve and reconsider my thought patterns. These ladies have been part of my business accountability group. They have encouraged me, prayed for me, and have been wonderful models for having a joyful happy attitude. One of these ladies kept talking about the book, The Energy Bus by Jon Gordon, and encouraged us to read it. I finally gave in and bought it. It is a fun, easy read, filled with fabulous life lessons. This book has greatly shaped how I walk through my day, what negative people and behaviors I had been tolerating, and how to transform my own life by the energy I bring each day to my family, my business, and the world. I do get to determine who “rides my bus”. I want to surround myself with those that lift me up, encourage others, and have a happiness factor that energizes me as well. Most importantly, I now desire to be the driver of my bus who energizes my team, who brings joy and encouragement to others. What a gift! Do you want to ride on my bus? Welcome aboard!